019 – Healing, Identity, and the Power of Becoming w/ Alicia Renee

In this powerful conversation, Dr. Alicia Renee Dickens shares her journey of transforming trauma into strength. From surviving sexual violence to authoring Made of Beaten Gold, Alicia shows how fire—pain, pressure, and failure—can refine us into brilliance.

 

This episode is a raw, honest look at healing, identity, faith, and the courage to let go of what no longer serves us.

 

Key Takeaways

 

Identity & Authenticity

“I hurt my own eyesight trying to fit in.”

Alicia reflects on the lifelong lesson of resisting borrowed identities and embracing who you truly are.

 

1. Healing & Letting Go

“Sometimes, what you’re holding onto for protection is what’s killing you.”

Real growth comes when we release old pain we mistakenly call protection.

 

2. Failure as Wisdom

“You don’t learn from success. You learn what to do right because of what went wrong.”

Failure is the classroom of life, shaping resilience and wisdom.

 

3. The Power of Community

“Your pain matters, no matter its size or story.”

Healing is amplified when shared in safe spaces of truth and sisterhood.

 

🌶️ From Pepper to Peppersoup

Failure, shame, fear, trauma → these are the peppers.

 

Growth, faith, and action → turn them into peppersoup: nourishment for the soul and strength for others.

 

Ask yourself this week:

What am I still carrying that was never mine?

 

What pain is ready to become gold?

 

Book: Made of Beaten Gold by Dr. Alicia Renee Dickens

Follow: @peppersoup.stories on instagram

 

Remember: You are not what happened to you — you are what you became because of it.

Please, share with your soul mates